7. She's Already Moved On
她已经开始了新感情
I have a timing threshold between when a guy becomes a "friend I could potentially date" and a "friend who will only ever be a friend." What happens with the timing thing is that once I become close to a guy, with the "he's one of my best friends" mindset, it's past the point of no return. He's the one I turn to when I have problems with the guy I might be dating at the time, the one I'm not afraid to let see me looking my worst, and the one I can rely on when I need anything. But, this is always with the understanding that he's my friend. Nothing more.
女生的心里是有个时机门槛的：“可能会约会的朋友”和“只能做朋友的朋友”可大不一样。这个时机就是，一旦女生跟某个男生很亲密，心里有了“他会是我最好的朋友”的想法，那么这个时机就过了，再也无法回头了。最好的朋友，意味着我会跟他聊我恋爱中的所有问题，我也不怕让他看到我最丑的样子，我有任何需要都可以指望他。但在我的心里，他只是我的朋友，再无其他。