1. She Hasn't Seen Your Skills
她没看到你的能力
I suggest having them see you in your most natural habitat doing what you do best. Confidence, concentration and skill in action is very attractive that women are responsive to. Some women will be turned on by computing skills, others by artistic ability, some by funniness, others by quiet loner-ness, etc. It's not that hard to figure out.
建议你让她们看到你在最熟悉的工作环境中做最擅长事情的样子。自信、专注和采取行动的能力会让女人觉得很有吸引力，女人会吃这一套。有些女人喜欢电脑技能强的，有些喜欢艺术能力优秀的，有些则爱幽默感十足的，还有人则会着迷于那种安静忧郁系的男人，想要搞清楚绝对不难。