4. You Haven't Made Her Feel Desirable
你没有让她觉得自己魅力不可挡
Of course you should be respectful and not treat women as objects, but it is quite possible to do that and act like a man and make a woman feel like she is beautiful and desirable at the same time. Women don't want to be treated as porcelain dolls -- they want to be treated as adults. And in the context of dating, most of them like being treated as attractive, sexy adults by a man who acts like a man, not one who acts like a starstruck boy.
你当然应该尊重女性不能拿她们当玩物，但是同时你也应该像个男人一样，让女人觉得她很漂亮很有魅力。女人可不想被人当瓷娃娃一样对待，你得拿她们当成年人看待。在约会的情况下，女性大都希望能被对方当做魅力而性感的成年人对待，而相对地，男性也别表现得像个幼稚的追星族一样。