1. You Complain A Lot
你总是抱怨
If you’re constantly complaining about your job, lack of money, or unfair life, people won’t care to spend a lot of time with you. Complaining gets old fast. Try to develop a more positive attitude and look for more interesting topics to discuss rather than what’s going wrong in your life.
如果你一直喋喋不休地抱怨工作，抱怨钱少，或是抱怨生命的不公，那旁人就会不屑花费过多的时间在你身上。再者，抱怨让人老得快。所以要培养一份更乐观的态度，并用更风趣的话题来代替你的碎碎念。