You can’t live without your dogs. But your girlfriend would rather die than live with them. You’re a devil incarnate when you’re angry. You’re struggling with a bad spending habit.
没有了你的狗狗你就不能活,而你的女朋友宁愿不活了也不愿意和它们一起生活;当你愤怒时你就会变成恶魔;你正在和不好的消费习惯作斗争。
We all have our negative aspects. If you’re thinking about making a lifelong commitment to someone it’s crucial to understand and develop strategies to deal with each other’s less-than-desirable traits.
我们都有自己的缺点。如果你正在考虑向某人许下一生的承诺,那么理解并想出办法应对彼此那些不太尽如人意的特质就非常重要。
Make a conscious decision to go (or not to go) pet-less for the rest of your life for a partner who’s allergic to your pets. Make your peace with the problematic spending habits of your significant other before you decide to take the plunge.
你的另一半对你的宠物过敏,那你就得做一个清醒的决定,选择未来过(或者不过)没有宠物的生活;冷静处理不好的消费习惯,在决定冒险时想想你的另一半。
It takes time to understand and deal with things we don’t like about our partners. And until and unless you’ve spent that time, you’re not ready to make a decision on marriage.
理解并应对那些另一半身上我们不喜欢的东西是需要时间的。除非你付出了这个时间,否则你就还没有做好准备要结婚。