Many people called him just to say he wasn't alone, others gave him advice, others vented at him, other counseled, he counseled others.
许多人打电话告诉他，他并非孤身一人。有些人给他建议，有些人则向他发泄心中所想，有人给他出谋划策，而他也给对方出谋划策。
So touched was he by the experience he decided to write a book about it. He revealed his favorite calls are when 'a person is completely candid and we help each other out by venting and listening'.
心有所感的他决定写下这段经历的点点滴滴。他谈到了他最在意的一个电话，对方毫无保留，畅谈心事，他们互相倾诉聆听，帮助对方也帮助了自己。
'One of my favorites was a call by this disabled mother in the U.S,' he said.
“有一个电话我记忆犹新，那是来自美国的残疾母亲。”他这么说。
'In 45 minutes she passed on a lifetime of wisdom. She taught me that I’m never going to be happy until I love myself. ’
“短短的45分钟，她畅谈了人生感悟，带给我的是生命的智慧。她教会了我只有爱自己才能感到幸福。”
'I have not liked myself in the past. For me this was revolutionary, trying to start to like myself. Happiness, she said, must to come from inside.’
“以前我从不爱惜自己。因此，她的话让我的思想发生了翻天覆地的改变。试着去爱自己，她对我说那就是来自我们内心深处的幸福。”