As in, play a social game for fun, leave obligations behind and have a ball! When I was a kid, my parents told me to pick an instrument and pick a sport. It wasn't about learning how to win or lose or building college application activities, it was about getting me involved in the world, involved with people, building social experiences, building relationships.
当你投入到一场社交活动寻找乐趣时，就把那些未完成的任务抛在脑后尽情享受把！我小的时候，我的父母让我学习一种乐器和一项体育运动。这并不是为了让我学会如何去取胜如何去面对失败，也不是为了申请大学增添砝码，而是为了让我更好的融入这个世界，融入周围的人，累积社会经验，建立人际关系。
Sometimes Be an Ear, Not a Mouth
学会倾听
I know, we love the sound of our own voices, but once in a while, one of our friends will really need us just to listen. Sometimes the conversation might be a lot of give and take, advice and speculation, soul-searching and puzzle-solving, but sometimes you just need to be a giant ear for an hour.
我知道，大家都喜欢发出自己的声音，但是有时候我们的朋友更希望我们能够倾听。有时候我们的对话是为了交换意见，提出建议和思考，为了解决难题而深思熟虑，但有时候你只需要暂时扮演一只大耳朵。