4. 诚实坦率
Lying never helps anyone grow. Be honest about your efforts, workload, skills, and needs. Your boss will appreciate your frankness. She may even be able to help you.
撒谎永远不可能助你进步。诚实对待你的努力、你的工作、你的技能和你的需求。老板会欣赏你的坦率，甚至还可能助你一臂之力。
5. Be a Team Player
5. 团队合作
It's crucialto speak up for yourself, but don't excludeyourself from your department or unit. Work with your co-workers to meet your common goal.
脱颖而出很重要，但也不要忘了你是团队的一员，你要和同事合作才能完成你们的共同目标。
6. Show Gratitude
6. 学会感恩
Everyone loves feeling loved. You welcome feedback, rewards, and recognitionfrom your boss, and she will do the same. When she sneaksyou a small gift, compliment, or helpful tip, thank her in person, in an email, or in a handwritten note. Illustratinghow much her effort means to you will encourage her to keep the gratitudecoming.
每个人都喜欢被爱的感觉。你希望从老板那里得到反馈、表扬和认可，老板也是一样。当老板给你送了个小礼物，或是对你赞扬了一番，又或者给你帮了把手，记住要感谢老板，无论你是当面感谢也好，还是通过邮件或者手写的小卡片也好，表达你对老板的感谢之情会让老板也备受鼓舞。相对地，她也会感谢你。
7. Have a Healthy Work-Life Balance
7. 平衡工作与生活
Your boss expects you to work diligentlyand be productive, but she doesn't expect you to live for work. Maintaining a healthy work-life balance will make you a happier person at home and at work. Everyone wins.
老板当然希望你工作认真又高效，但是，老板不希望你只会工作。平衡好工作与生活的关系会让你在家在单位都感到更快乐。这就是共赢。