4.Share Your Passions
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Take turns choosing an arts or cultural event to attend together each month. The point is to show your partner what you love, so that he or she can experience it as you do (or close enough). To make this work, both of you have to be flexible: someone might have to attend a football match or the theatre. The reward lies in experiencing each other's passion. And who knows – you may have a lot more fun than you ever imagined.
每月轮流选择并一起参加一项艺术或者文化活动。这么做，是向你的爱人展示你的爱好，这样他/她也可以和你一起经历（或者近距离感受）。想要做好这一点，你们俩都必须很宽容并愿意配合：可能有人得去看足球比赛或者去剧院。这样做的好处是可以体会对方到某些事物的热爱之情。而且说不定，你会发现其中的乐趣比你想象得要多得多！