这些规则非常简单，所以实施起来比较容易。如果你的小孩没有遵守规则，你可以对小孩说：“爱娃（当然，你是称呼你自己孩子的名字），你必须 （在开口说话前，把嘴巴里面的食物吃完，我们不要满口食物的说话。”）
The key words here are, “You need to” and “We”. These words teach your rules and values clearly and concisely but they also join you as a family instead of placing blame or belittling. When your child hears, “We” they hear, “Oh, yeah, that’s what my family does” instead of, “I'm bad again”.
这些关键词“你必须”和“我们”，不仅清晰简明地传达了规则里所蕴含的价值。与此同时，使得每个人融入到家庭之中，而不仅仅是责备或贬低。当你的孩子听到“我们”这个词，他们听到的是“哦，原来如此，我的家人是这么做的。”而不是“我又没有做对。”
If your child continues to misbehave or break a rule after this reminder then you can use my 4 Step Discipline Technique.
如果提醒之后，小孩继续调皮捣蛋或者无视规则。那么，你可以采用我提出的四步自律原则。
A couple of other things to make sure meal time is relaxing:Ease up. Gradually give your baby (child) the opportunity to experience independence because it's what they crave. As soon as your baby can sit upright, without additional support, bring the high chair to the table. Let her feed herself as much as possible – with finger foods to start off with.When she’s big enough, give her a booster seat. Try not to make a 2 1/2 or 3 year old be stuck in a high chair drinking from a bottle or sippy cup – they are beyond this. It's okay though to have a 2 – 2 1/2 year old wear a bib until they can show you they don't need it, but try to allow them to practice being independent. Use a speaking object, if necessary. Sometimes families, larger ones especially, struggle because everyone wants to speak at the same time. Decide as a family on what object could be used to show whose turn it is to talk. It could be the salt shaker or something more special like a shell someone found on a family holiday. Pass this object around to ensure that only the person with it in front of them is speaking. Use these tips and tricks consistently and I guarantee that meal times will become one of your most favourite times of the day!
让你拥有轻松愉快的用餐时光的其它小技巧：
首先要放轻松！学会慢慢地给你的小孩提供自己进食的机会。这也是他们所渴望的。一旦你的孩子可以自己坐直，不需要额外的东西支撑时，就给他用儿童高脚椅。让他们尽可能开始自己用手指拿食物进食。当她足够大之后，给她用主推座椅。不要试图把两岁半或三岁的小孩放在高脚椅中用瓶子或者宝宝吸光杯喝东西，因为这已经超出他们的能力。可以给两岁或两岁半的小孩系上围兜，直到他们不在需要为止，但是要试着让他们训练独立的能力。
其次，如果有需要的话，说话前需要拿到代表具有说话权的快递物。有时候，家中的长辈感到很困扰。因为每个人都试图在同一个时间点来表达想法。作为家庭中的一员，可以用传递物品决定轮到谁开始发言。比如：用盐瓶或比较特别的物品，像家庭海边度假时发现的贝壳。通过传递这些物品，只有当物品传递到你面前是才能发言。
只有你持之以恒的运用这些技巧，我能保证您的用餐时间将成为你一天中最美好的时刻。