5. Belittling His Hobbies 贬损他的嗜好
Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn't like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than his and that's not the message you should be sending.
每个人都有一两种嗜好是他伴侣所不喜欢的。然而，你绝不应该禁止他去做。还有，绝不要强迫他选择你的嗜好，因为你所传达的信息就是：你的嗜好远比他的重要。你不能传达出这种信息。