如何思量成功人士
What should we be thinking when we see a successful person? We should not compare ourselves to the successful person’s results. We should think through the successful person’s journey by asking questions like:
看到成功人士时，我们应该考虑哪些方面？我们不应该拿自己和他们对比，并以成败论英雄。我们应该捋清其职业旅程，方法便是询问几个类似下面的问题：
1. How did they get there?
2. How long did it take?
3. What career stages or milestones did they have to master to achieve this level of success?
4. What life stage are they at?
5. What barriers did they most likely experience?
6. What doubts did they most likely have?
7. How did they learn from failures and disappointments to bounce back harder, faster, smarter? Rather than feeling bad about ourselves, we must think about what made the person successful.
1. 他们是如何获得成功的？
2. 他们用了多久成功的？
3. 他们必须经历什么样的职业阶段或里程碑才达到现在的成功水平？
4. 他们的人生处于什么阶段？
5. 他们最可能经历过怎样的阻碍？
6. 他们最可能有过怎样的（自我）质疑？
7. 他们如何从失败和失意中学习，从而变得更坚强、更快速、更明智？与其自惭形秽，不如多想想别人成功的原因。