When things go poorly, we sometimes start a list of ways we failed, ways we caused the problem.
This kind of thinking not only can uupset us, it also can keep us from being able to function.
The truth is that any situation is the result of some things that are in your control and some things that are out of your control.
So don't delude yourself into thinking a bad situation completely of your making.
Remember, it makes more sense to deal with outcomes than with fault.

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小米子 (2008-6-30 23:43:40)
IRIS850825 (2008-7-01 09:25:01)
Just be generous to yourself and others.
ripplechen (2008-7-07 10:52:38)
Kobe (2008-7-08 23:31:13)
it makes more sense to deal with outcomes than with fault.
,汎 (2008-7-13 00:57:18)
shideyijing (2008-7-14 17:14:29)
you are the best of all
hope you will make progress dramatically in the near future
RHETT (2008-7-18 19:43:52)
it shouldn't be the excuse, for fleeing from the blame,
yanfen (2008-7-19 17:34:54)
Come on,come on!
xiaoxia19892006 (2008-7-24 17:12:26)