Don't blame yourself

When things go poorly, we sometimes start a list of ways we failed, ways we caused the problem.
This kind of thinking not only can uupset us, it also can keep us from being able to function.
The truth is that any situation is the result of some things that are in your control and some things that are out of your control.
So don't delude yourself into thinking a bad situation completely of your making.
Remember, it makes more sense to deal with outcomes than with fault.

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  • 小米子 (2008-6-30 23:43:40)

    Every day we will  make a lot of mistakes  and we also puzzle about our power .So cheer up . Don't blame yourself.  Just  belive in yourself.
  • IRIS850825 (2008-7-01 09:25:01)

    Donot blame yourself!
    Just be generous to yourself and others.
  • ripplechen (2008-7-07 10:52:38)

    Believe yourself , you'll do better.
  • Kobe (2008-7-08 23:31:13)

    Yes,You are right.
    it makes more sense to deal with outcomes than with fault.
  • ,汎 (2008-7-13 00:57:18)

    i can't understand it..!
  • shideyijing (2008-7-14 17:14:29)

    Don't blame yourself
    you are the  best of all
    hope you will make progress dramatically  in the near future
  • RHETT (2008-7-18 19:43:52)

    i agree with you, but i think only add the prerequisition that we do our best and try our best can i agree with you totally.
    it shouldn't be the excuse, for fleeing from the blame,
  • yanfen (2008-7-19 17:34:54)

    We should have self-confidence. If we have mistakes,don't be upset.I think it is a chance for us to find out our disadvantages.
    Come on,come on!
  • xiaoxia19892006 (2008-7-24 17:12:26)

    but  life is full of unexpected things,i think if we could live happily,then anything is ok~~personal opinion